Tuesday, 3 July 2012

The truth is, we're all suffering from a severe case of 'Jubilee-ation'




As any writer worth their salt is, I’m always very conscious of my audience when I write these articles. What is interesting to the people of Sussex? What do they care about? What do they spend their days doing? Sometimes it takes me hours of head-banging to bash through the writer’s block and think of something that I hope you may find vaguely interesting/amusing/surprising (delete as appropriate). Thankfully, this month there was only one thing I could really write about and you would had to have been in the deepest darkest corner of the thickest rainforest in the world to have missed the Jubilee celebrations.

I’m not the biggest royalist in the country. Don’t misunderstand me: I’m not anti-royalist but I don’t honestly give them much thought. I vaguely remember having the royal wedding on the TV in the background as I cleaned the house and I’ll admit to offering a cursory glance to the magazine pages covered in images of the Duchess of Cornwall. The insightful critiques into what she’s wearing and whether she’s too young for skin-coloured tights are vaguely engaging every now and again.

Despite my apathetic approach to our royal figureheads I couldn’t help but suffer from a surprisingly overwhelming feeling of national pride as the Jubilee weekend rattled on. While it wasn’t all down to the image of the Royal Family in their finery, that was certainly partly responsible. You’d have to be made of stone to not give massive kudos to an 86-year-old woman who spends three hours standing in the pouring rain on a boat while the wind blows about her only to find she still has energy to dance a small jig when the orchestra offers a rousing nautical piece at the end.

So yes, the Royal Family, and especially the Queen impressed me this weekend. I left the Jubilee holiday a little more pro-Royalist than I was when I arrived. Watching Camilla and Kate have a giggle while they compared how cold their hands were with the boys was nothing short of a heartwarmingly, natural moment that any family could have enjoyed.  It was clearly an event that every royal in attendance was very proud to be a part of. Even more clearly, they were very proud of their wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother and grandmother-in-law respectively.

And of course, we were proud of our Queen. So proud in fact that we came out in our hundreds and thousands to stand in the rain and we weren’t nearly as covered as the Queen. We didn’t have our own royal barge with a canopy to shield us from the worst of the weather. Oh no! We resorted to Union Jack umbrellas and anoraks and wellies in the way that only the British know how. 

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We kept on smiling as raindrops poured their way down our face and neck and into our socks and shoes. Drenched to the bone we lined the Mall and the Thames and laughed our way through it waving flags and cheering. For a nation that’s known for moaning and whinging we maintained stoic cheer in the face of weather that seemed intent on ruining the day. But let’s be honest, we wouldn’t have enjoyed it nearly as much if it had been sunny. It wouldn’t have felt like Britain and it wouldn't have given us a chance to show off our unfathomable ability to have even more fun in the face of adverse weather conditions.

We are a strange and confused nation; of that there is no doubt. If it had been gloriously warm, as it was the week before, we would have complained about the heat. Every single one of us would have suffered mild to severe sunburn because we simply don’t know how to deal with the sun.  We would have drunk ourselves into a stupor because that seems to be the rules when it’s warm enough to drink outside. And worst of all, British men would have taken their tops off and you know what? It’s never the men that you wouldn’t mind seeing with their tops off, it’s always the ones that should keep their torsos firmly under wraps.

We don’t like picnicking unless we have to dig holes to prop up five umbrellas and create makeshift waterproofs out of black bin liners. The beach isn’t nearly as much fun unless you spend half your time chasing beach balls as the British wind blows them away and on the same theme, sandwiches aren’t as tasty unless the aforementioned wind has blown a decent dose of sand into them – it’s worth noting that we are the only nation that insists on eating on the beach. Bank holiday weekends are always, without fail, preceded by a week of beautiful, sun-drenched weather that will inevitably break as we all leave work for the long weekend. We enjoy forging out fragments of fun despite the fact that the British environment never seems to play along.

And that’s not all. Us Brits as a nation have a variety of weird and wonderful traits that other nations find dumbfounding. For example, our national love of a queue is discussed the world over. We are the only nation in the world that will actively and happily wait in an ordered and measured queue without wondering why we’re doing it. While this is part of our British genteelism it doesn’t stand us in good stead when we travel to faraway lands. A friend of mine recently got back from China. It was only while she tried to queue for food that she realised her British upbringing had left her ill equipped for the regular wrestle that other nations revert to instead of a queue.

If you come from a country that isn’t part of the Commonwealth, cricket will be a complete mystery to you, as will cucumber sandwiches. It will make no sense that a roast dinner can only be eaten on a Sunday and there’s no reason for this, it just simply is. You’ll also, quite rightly, wonder at our need to sit and eat outside when the sun shows its pretty little face, even though it’s still only 14 degrees and we’re all shivering because we’re wearing shorts, t-shirts and flip-flops when we should be rugged up and inside watching Coronation Street or Eastenders. Oh, and while we’re talking about those shows, only the British can make long-running entertainment out of the most depressing storylines set in the two most poverty-stricken, fictional areas of England! Afternoon tea is an indulgence that only we can justify and don’t even get people started on fish and chips.

Please don’t make the mistake of taking this as criticism. It’s the complete opposite. This is a celebration of all that is British and all that the Jubilee weekend stood for. As a nation we talk a lot of grumpy rubbish and rabbit on about how lousy our country is, how useless the Royal Family are, how boring the endless rain is and how we wish we lived somewhere else but it’s all a big fat lie. The weekend showed how, in reality, we can’t help but be proud of our nation in all its rainy, windy, crickety, sandy-sandwiched, topless and hairy gloriousness. 

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First published in Sussex Local (July 2012 edition) www.sussexlocal.net